Keeping kids safe, physically and emotionally is
part of our everyday work in afterschool programs. While events like Sandy Hook and Columbine
serve to remind us that we cannot protect youth from people determined to harm
them, when we look at the world more holistically, we realize that fortunately
these catastrophic events are not everyday occurrences and we do have some
control over those everyday situations.
I was talking with a young man who pointed this
out to me in clear terms. I was
expressing my concern for his well-being because I realized he spent the weekends
with a brother who was heavily involved in gang activity. He looked me squarely in the eye and said,
“You don’t get it. I am dying every day
in inches. With my brother, it would be
over quickly.” Needless to say, this
took me aback. So I talked more with him
and he shared how he was made fun of, mocked and sometimes bullied. We talked about how older youth took out
their frustrations on younger kids because they couldn’t fight back
effectively. We talked about how he yearned
for a place that felt safe, and sadly, although school was somewhat better than
the neighborhood and apartment complex he lived in, school was not that safe
place for him either.
We need to take a stand. While we may not be able to control every
aspect of a youth’s life, we can be sure that during the time the youth is in
our afterschool program he or she feels safe—both physically and emotionally. To find out some practical ways to do this,
check out the Nifty 9 e-Book on Safety.
What are some of the challenges that you are
facing keeping youth safe? Are you
struggling balancing heightened safety regulations (lock outs and gate opening)
with running a successful program? Weigh
in on this topic.
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